Can you ask for accommodations to just take her out of school for educational things? Our school let us include that in our gifted plan last year.

I was worried (a lot!) that my two strong-willed kiddos would break me this year because we decided to homeschool rather than let them languish in our school district. It was a bit tough for the first 3 weeks, but then they settled in. I set core school hours and any time between 8-2 is educational activities only. I also let them work ahead to enable them to have a day off on Fridays or at least a very light day. <-- Definitely makes them happier about homeschooling.