Originally Posted by Cynthialcy
Somehow it is really confused for me for my son's intense interest, should I stop him learning his math? or should I follow his lead?

We had a kid like this. We chose to let him learn math, but we also constantly worked to expand his horizons. He was scared of the woods; we kept at it and now he regularly goes camping. He hates sports and was terrible at them; we worked on those skills and he eventually played football with other boys at recess.

Anything that limited his world, we worked on. This included play skills that let him participate with other kids, and following rules or instructions given by other adults.