At the risk of additional redundancy with Dude's post-- yes. That's how we try to approach things around here, too; that is, acknowledge the reality (99.9th percentile people ARE out of step with the world at large), while at the same time turning toward growth as learning, in order to deal with the excessive perfectionism that runs roughshod over most of our household members from time to time.


Schrödinger's cat walks into a bar. And doesn't.