Yes-- I've really had to be pretty evasive at times.

Sadly, DD has absorbed this message and interpreted it to mean (somewhat correctly, ironically) that she makes other people uncomfortable when she just is. That being PG is something she should HIDE from others so that they don't feel unhappy or icky and treat her accordingly.

While I guess that isn't exactly a bad life skill if you happen to be PG, I'd rather that she didn't seem to feel bad for being that way.

Schrödinger's cat walks into a bar. And doesn't.