Yes, definitely. People are sensitive about their kids; hopefully it is not anything that your friend is really offended about. But I hate leaving stuff like that unresolved. frown

If it is a good friend, I hope a frank discussion can result in both of you being able to share each other's hope and dreams for your children, their special achievements or aggravating /funny traits.
Sigh, it is hard to find that sweet spot with people. Good luck.