Hi, (just my opinion) but I say always follow your instincts and trust your gut. Don't worry about whether the child is officially labeled gifted or not, proceed working on your areas of concern -- asynchronous development, how to balance everything. It never hurts to do what is best for you as a family. It's important to have a happy home. The child is very young but your early intervention since you are concerned is helpful no matter what. Anytime (at any school) I did not want to drop our child in the care of a school, we did some version of home-schooling that worked for us until we felt that our child would be a good fit for the school. For us, the goal is not the school, it is the life after school. Remember many famous, successful, talented people have dropped out of the most prestigious schools to pursue their dreams, passions, talents, and gifts. The schools are supposed to help the people.
