Originally Posted by Hils
It's just hard to get the school to acknowledge a gap- hopefully this independent testing will help us get somewhere.

It took us a *long* time to advocate successfully at school. Having the private eval was a critical first step, but we also had to do a lot of legwork of our own as parents: observing and keeping samples of the types of schoolwork where the challenges impacted the most was really key. It also helped us to simply graph some of the results from private testing in a way that illustrated the challenge. Depending upon what your evaluator feels is driving the lower PSI/WM scores, you may find there are other tests that illustrate more clearly the impact of the challenge. As our ds grew older, it was also helpful to have his input to include at school team meetings.

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On the standardized tests (CA- CST) he scores advanced in language arts and high proficient in math, so if there aren't major behavior issues, they have said they have no reason to test unless there is a huge gap between performance and ability.

In our state, the state tests are *not* good measures of a gap between performance and ability for high-ability students because the ceilings are very low. There were two ways that were useful for us to show the gap between performance and ability. The first was looking in detail at the achievement tests that were done in conjunction with the IQ test. Since our ds' challenge is fine motor that impacts his ability to use handwriting efficiently, when we charted his individual WJ-III Achievement tests vs response type (oral, written and written+timed), there are very clear trends. Oral response subtests chart at around the same percentile as his VCI/PRI scores - which means that with an oral response, achievement matches ability. Handwritten responses showed a signifcant drop in scores, and handwriting+timed subtest scores were very low.

The other thing we did was to create examples at home showing the discrepancy - having ds tell us a story vs writing it out showed the difference in quality of response; having ds write out the alphabet upper+lower case and timing how long it took then comparing it to grade-norms (found online) showed his handwriting speed was significantly below grade level. While this doesn't carry the weight of a professional report, it is still an example illustrating an issue which the school then has to disprove (and most likely won't be able to), and it was a very helpful tool for us in advocating.

One other thing to consider since writing is potentially an issue for your ds, is to request the school give him the TOWL (Test of Written Language). This is a very common test used all over the US for assessing written language, and most schools will have it.

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Who can evaluate a vision issue?

Vision can get tricky - if it's a tracking issue or convergence etc (how the eyes work together) it's something that a routine eye exam might miss entirely but a developmental optometrist exam would pick up. There will potentially be clues in your psych testing, though - possibly just within the WISC subtests, and also in additional testing if your psych included additional testing. You can also sometimes see clues in how your child holds their head while reading etc.

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Another BIG question- DS9 had a very rough delivery.

I would try to not put too much worry into the past and what might have caused the challenges your ds has now. The past is over, and it's what it was - you can't go back and change it, and even if you could, could you really have changed anything? My ds took a huge fall on his head in an accident when he was around 5 - and his neuropsych feels that his issues might be the result of TBI. Knowing that his fall might have caused even a tiny part of his challenges left me feeling sooooo so very sad and guilty - but the accident wasn't something I could have prevented; I wasn't anywhere near him when it happened. And in reality, we've learned in the years since his diagnosis that dyslexia and dysgraphia are present all over the place in dh's family - so at least part of his challenges are most likely due to genes, not that fall. Anyway, I totally understand the looking back and second guessing. Try not to spend any time there, chances are it's not related and even if it is, it will be ok.

Best wishes,

polarbear