Polly, her teacher has an open door policy so I have had a couple of opportunities to observe her in class. She really is having fun. She participates in class discussions, has friends that really like her, terrific teachers that for most part pay attention to her, etc. The work they do in math is very easy for her (per DD) but she loves everything else, especially science, art and drama. I have also noticed that when she is hungry or tired, her behavior worsens so I am trying to address that. I did google the nurtured hearts approach and I think that would work for us. I am planning to look into it more this weekend. Thanks again for your wonderful advice.