epoh, Dbat and syoblrig, I am not good at punishing bad behavior except letting her know how disappointed I am and how I know she did not mean to do that and would not repeat that. However, based on your advice, I started a coin jar for her yesterday. She already has a piggy bank but I setup a new jar and we are calling it the goodie jar. Everytime, she listens to us, she gets a quarter in that jar. When she disobeys, a quarter gets taken away from her. At the end of the month, if she has at least $20, she can buy any one of her favorite items. If it is less than $20, everything gets taken away. She helped come up with this system and at least it had a real positive impact yesterday evening. Hopefully, this will last.

Last edited by Lovemydd; 10/08/13 09:18 AM.