suggesting electronics probably isn't the best way to go but Leapfrog Leappad (we have Leappad2) is what keeps me sane! For DS3.3 it's been his personal speech therapy, learning tool and time killing machine for the last year. It's not just a mindless system. All their games are really learning games. Some of them teach facts about geography, animals, etc (aside from the usual math and language arts)