Ugh ya'll. This is depressing. I know dd6 is unusual. And the school just does not see it all and thinks I am a crazy parent invested in a gifted label whether my child needs it or not. There are a few things I would change, but overall we have lucked out with advocating for dd12 and she has generally had a goodish fit (private Montessori until 5th grade, then skipped 6th in large challenging public). I guess I am lucky though because depending on what the WISC eventually shows, there is an acceleration process in the district whether the principal is philosophically opposed to it or not. But mostly, they just don't see it with dd6.
