1frugalmom, is homeschooling even a remote possibility? I realize it isn't for everyone, but it has worked so well for us academically, socially, and emotionally! I would be happy to tell you more if you are interested. I will just say that I sometimes have trouble relating to a lot of what is on this board because our experience homeschooling has been so easy, simple, and pleasant. I realize not everyone can swing it, of course. Just offering it in case it strikes a chord!