I ran the question of this FBA eval past DD's psych and she said "no way" - that it is totally inappropriate. So it seems that all of this fuss and drama was for nothing. They blindsided us and tried to force us into approving an eval on the spot, tried to get the record to reflect that we rejected their request when in reality we said we needed to discuss with DD's psych and it turns out to be a totally inappropriate eval.

You can't make this stuff up if you try...