I guess I'm really in no hurry to put a label on it as long as we have the accommodations in place at school. I don't want him saddled with a label that is hard to get rid of in my haste to get a diagnosis, and since it isn't really cut and dried, I'm ok with the "time will tell" approach. But when I talk about difficulties with him, we talk about his Aspergers traits, and he is also able to relate to his dad who has a lot of the same traits.