Kristina:
I don't have gifted kids who are your daughter's age, my son is still very young. However, I do work with teen girls and know that they want their mom in such a bad way. I would suggest having a regular "date" time with her and just let it be education free. Go to a movie, ice skating, for ice cream and let her do ALL the talking....just listen. I think in those moments, you'll hear her heart. Your daughter is bright, but she might be finding it a little difficult to fit in. I think trinity's camp idea is a great one...just remember, she needs to have fun too.
