...sorry had to break up post.
As a psychotherapist working with kids, I try to break down the complexity of social rules and communication in whet seems like a blatantly obvious way to those who don't struggle. For example, discussing that one always apologizes for an accident (bump in line, knocking a pencil off someone's desk) despite the fact the act wasn't intentional. You can make it more fun by giving her stickers or pennies or tickets when she picks up on social cues or appropriately follows a social rule despiteher contrary inclination. Some kids need algebra explained step by step...others need body language tutorials.
