Any advice on broaching the subject with the neuropsych without twerking his jaw out of joint? I want him to test deeper, because I'm pretty sure the memory issues are not ADHD.
I think if you are that worried about this issue, that you need to cancel the appointment and travel to see someone who is 'known' for teasing out the complicated picture that giftedness can present.
If this is the only way you can get any help at all, I would work on being open to the possibility that your child does actually have ADHD 'as this particular expert sees it' and try the medication and see for yourself if it helps more than it hurts.
Hope that helps,
Grinity
