I really hope that the meeting turns out to be their attempt at making things right for your son!
I'm just getting over worrying about "special snowflake" comments myself. It's not about being special, it's about getting each child what they need. So frustrating that educators don't all get that... this is where we as parents wind up telling them what scores and assessments mean, because it's not what they know. Over time, I've become more and more confident that I (based on my own research and reading) know more than most of the people who are standing in the way...
I'm not sure I would even hand over the scores, but I would have them handy and walk over and show them, tell them what that means in plain terms... then put them back in my file. :-)
