What I did was make the training wheels uneven, so that they would balance on the back tire and then the training wheel would catch them if they went too far (not too uneven but enough that I could hear the bike riding for short periods without the noise of the training wheels.) then, we took the training wheels off, and because DD was too afraid of injury, we practiced in the grass. We did this a few times, then moved to the sidewalk. She picked it up really fast. DS, who learned a week before his 5th bday, went right to the sidewalk. In fact, after having the wheels unbalanced for a while, he let me hlep a handful of times then said leave him alone, he would do it himself. He pushed with one foot like a scooter til he was moving enough to pick up the foot and start pedalling and he practically taught himself. In fact, almost overnight. He spent ALL DAY and mastered it... to the point that he was flying so fast, that he was racing his sister that same week, their tires collided and he went FLYING! Thank GOD for his helmet because it saved his nose and upper face but he hit his mouth and knocked two teeth loose and ripped up his gums and cheeks. So... is it really so bad to keep those training wheels? JK!
