Gifted Bulletin Board

Welcome to the Gifted Issues Discussion Forum.

We invite you to share your experiences and to post information about advocacy, research and other gifted education issues on this free public discussion forum.
CLICK HERE to Log In. Click here for the Board Rules.

Links


Learn about Davidson Academy Online - for profoundly gifted students living anywhere in the U.S. & Canada.

The Davidson Institute is a national nonprofit dedicated to supporting profoundly gifted students through the following programs:

  • Fellows Scholarship
  • Young Scholars
  • Davidson Academy
  • THINK Summer Institute

  • Subscribe to the Davidson Institute's eNews-Update Newsletter >

    Free Gifted Resources & Guides >

    Who's Online Now
    0 members (), 132 guests, and 119 robots.
    Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
    Newest Members
    JaxDrift, Vivasmm, Nicholas Hill, whatmusic, Anne Hathaway
    11,745 Registered Users
    August
    S M T W T F S
    1 2
    3 4 5 6 7 8 9
    10 11 12 13 14 15 16
    17 18 19 20 21 22 23
    24 25 26 27 28 29 30
    31
    Previous Thread
    Next Thread
    Print Thread
    Joined: Nov 2009
    Posts: 530
    Member
    OP Offline
    Member
    Joined: Nov 2009
    Posts: 530
    Any great and awesome suggestions on how to gently get a small toddler to try something he has some hope of managing?

    Today was end-to-end tantrums, and then he had nightmares durring his nap, and again just now.

    Arg.


    DS1: Hon, you already finished your homework
    DS2: Quit it with the protesting already!
    Joined: May 2009
    Posts: 425
    W
    Member
    Offline
    Member
    W
    Joined: May 2009
    Posts: 425
    Cross your fingers and pray? LOL

    Is there anything that is a specific draw? Perhaps there is a kid version? Or he can help with part of the job?

    I feel your pain...

    Joined: Feb 2010
    Posts: 462
    Member
    Offline
    Member
    Joined: Feb 2010
    Posts: 462
    No suggestions, just empathy. It has got to be so frustrating when your motor skills are not as developed as your brain. The frustration is still there for DS7, but he doesn't have the horrible tantrums and refusals to try something else like he did as a toddler. DS would refuse help, would refuse suggestions to make it easier...I could see what he had in his mind to accomplish and his body just would not do it! Blah, I don't think you can do anything except wait for his body to grow. Nan

    Joined: Nov 2009
    Posts: 530
    Member
    OP Offline
    Member
    Joined: Nov 2009
    Posts: 530
    He's been taking any toy, including things like vibrating elephants made for 3 month olds, and comming up with SOMETHING difficult to do with them. He appeared to be trying to get the elephant's looped cord to hook onto something so he could pull the cord using only one hand, but refused to use his hand on the cord to do it. Lassoing is just NOT a 12 month skill, thanks.

    And he was trying to play along to a jazz song with a triangle. It was too fast for him. He was trying to learn to blow a recorder, but he figured that one out, so now it's just a noise problem (and actually he doesn't squeek too much, so it's not even a really bad noise problem), we will soon have a whole consort of toddlers blowing into recorders while their parents do the fingering, and then we will need a video camera.

    The one he keeps going back to is ballancing wedge-shaped blocks on their thin edges, and stacking blocks on top of round blocks. I've seen people pull these things off, but they are crazy, and have probably spent more combined hours trying to do these things than DS has been alive. And trying to feed himself things like soup. And trying to feed ME things like soup.

    Blarg.

    But today was a little better, and I'm feeling a little better.

    Thanks for the moral support smile


    Last edited by Michaela; 05/09/10 08:33 PM.

    DS1: Hon, you already finished your homework
    DS2: Quit it with the protesting already!
    Joined: Aug 2009
    Posts: 383
    A
    Member
    Offline
    Member
    A
    Joined: Aug 2009
    Posts: 383
    Just hugs LOL....Wow you just described DD at that age....well still at this age LOL. Just remember you are not alone.


    DD6- DYS
    Homeschooling on a remote island at the edge of the world.
    Joined: May 2009
    Posts: 425
    W
    Member
    Offline
    Member
    W
    Joined: May 2009
    Posts: 425
    How about a slide whistle? He could change the tune on his own.


    Moderated by  M-Moderator 

    Link Copied to Clipboard
    Recent Posts
    How did your PG student prepare for the MCAT?
    by Carole G - 08/19/25 04:29 AM
    NGAT vs NNAT
    by aeh - 08/15/25 01:34 PM
    What do I ask for to support my kids?
    by intrusionequator - 08/11/25 07:04 PM
    Quotations that resonate with gifted people
    by indigo - 08/10/25 10:23 AM
    Help! Gifted Son w school trauma
    by Carole G - 08/09/25 10:06 AM
    Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5