
bursting into tears is probably not the most positive way to start out a post, but I'm having one of those beat-down, maybe-the-school-is-right, maybe-I-don't-know-anything-about-my-child kind of days. It's a ride I've been on before and frankly, it's exhausting me. None of my doubts are based on DD, they're all about the school and the lack of clear or understandable parameters for what they consider "gifted" (since apparently the data points they mention generally when they talk about giftedness only count when they are acheived by others).
So...I'm back to considering IQ testing, which we haven't done. The thing is, DD is 10 and a half, and I keep reading about how the ideal age range ends at 9 for an accurate score. I can deal with a score being lower than I think it will be--but only if I can have confidence that it is a likely score, since the whole point of doing this would be to get off the merry-go-round of "I'm right...no, the school's right...no I'm right...no..

" . Seriously, I can't take it anymore.... If I have to worry that she can't get an accurate score at her age, then there's no point in this at all. Which brings me to my big question:
DD is not PG. Based on descriptions I've read, maybe HG. Does that mean I don't have to worry about her age? Is it only the PG who have their scores depressed by ceilings at that age? It seems so odd to me that tests would be constructed that would become inaccurate at such a young age, but I have no idea what to expect when it comes to this type of testing.
Thoughts?