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    First of all, I want to thank everyone who has posted on vision issues in the past. So many of your stories and comments made me wonder about dd5.

    She was an early reader (had the ability to read Magic Treehouse at the age of 3, though she would tire after a single chapter). She has always had a deep love of books. They were her favorite possessions from a very young age. She loves being read to and books on cd will hold her attention for long periods of time. However, despite being able to read almost anything, she rarely chooses to read for pleasure. I found this odd.

    Her pediatrician screened her at her 5-year check up and said she has 20/20 vision. But still, I couldn't let go of the idea that something wasn't right.

    After mulling it over for months, yesterday, I took her to a behavioral optometrist, who gave her a complete exam. The doctor came highly recommended from another family with a HG+ child and I found she really understood gifted kids.

    I told her, "You probably think I'm crazy ... dragging a child in here who reads several years above grade level and saying she has challenges when it comes to reading."

    Turns out, dd5 does have 20/20 vision. But she still needs glasses. Bifocals. For "up close work" like reading and writing. The main part of the lens will be without a prescription. The lower part will help her eyes focus and aim more effectively. The doctor says right now, when dd reads, the words are jumping around on the page. Amazing for me, when I consider the book she is plowing through right now for her school book log is a chapter book leveled for readers in mid-third grade. And her comprehension has always been excellent. The doctor says she just has to work very hard every time she reads.

    Here's the interesting part I wanted to share. The optometrist told me that if she compared dd5 to other 5-year-olds, she may still fit within the low end of "normal." However, she didn't think it was appropriate to compare her with other 5-year-olds when dd5 is essentially asking her eyes to do the work of a 7 or 8 year old.

    She said, "If your dd5 was only asking her eyes to help herself cut out large shapes and glue them on pieces of paper, she would probably be fine doing that. In fact, you probably wouldn't have noticed a problem - at least not until much later. But since she is reading and writing and doing math like an older child - I want to help her eyes do everything her brain wants to do."

    She may still need vision therapy for tracking issues in the future (she skips words occasionally), but we are going to see if the glasses improve the situation.

    And one other note. After reading other posts about the expense of vision therapy, I had fears about how much it would cost to take dd5 to a behavioral optometrist for an exam. I was pleased to find out that my vision plan treated the exam, glasses, lenses, etc as it would any other optometrist.

    Sorry this ended up so long. I simply wanted to share my story in the hopes it helps another family in the way all of your stories helped me.


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    hi irisheyes
    your post (and countless others) have finally convinced me to start looking into a bahavioral optometrist for my two kids, each with similar stories. Can you tell me how you found one who was recommended for HG kids. I have no clue where to start. I am in the New York metro area .. if anyone can give specific suggestions that would be great.

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    Thank you so much for coming back and sharing! That is so awesome for your DD! Way to go mom!

    I spoke with our optometrist today and he suggested we take DS7 to visual therapy. DH thinks I am really crazy now. Hahaha He did say that DS7 was reading fine this summer so what is the prob. I told him he stopped and is refusing to read period. So DH is taking it upon himself to 'see if there is an issue'. YEAH!

    I'm so glad you shared becuz maybe I am not so crazy for 'seeing' a problem. laugh

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    DS5 got glasses shortly after school started this fall as he started complaining about things being blurry occasionally. He has an astigmatism (which we knew about only because he's seen an optometrist since he was 3) but normally would not have needed glasses. I never even thought that it could be due to his reading that his eyes were bothering him.

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    Thanks for the support, everyone.

    I feared my post was a bit lengthy, but having been on the other side, you never know which part is going to resonate with another parent.

    As for the recommendation, my friend has been doing Occupational Therapy for her HG+ son. The OT recommended her son see this behavioral optometrist. My friend had a great experience (her son did need to correct vision in one eye). I checked out the optometrist's website and it even had a section on gifted and learning disabled children. Then when I checked on the website I've seen recommended here in the past (www.covd.org) and saw this same doctor's name, I felt the stars had aligned.


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    OK, it's official. I'm calling a DO or a BO this week!!!! I had to wear bifocals for a while when I was younger (and go through therapy), and yet I never thought about DS having the same issue b/c I have an eye that has a muscle issue (can't remember the name) that makes it extremely hard for me to move it left (without moving my head). But wow - this so makes sense to me:

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    She said, "If your dd5 was only asking her eyes to help herself cut out large shapes and glue them on pieces of paper, she would probably be fine doing that. In fact, you probably wouldn't have noticed a problem - at least not until much later. But since she is reading and writing and doing math like an older child - I want to help her eyes do everything her brain wants to do."

    THANKS!!!!


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