Hi everyone,
Now that I�ve got to the point where I�ve read every thread here and have had the pleasure of hearing of all your experiences

I thought it time to say hi. So hi from me, DH & DS (6yr, 8mo), originally from the UK now living in New Zealand.
We often suspected DS was �different� but with no one to compare to put a lot of his behavior down to his many life threatening food allergies which were not diagnosed until he was 2.5yrs. So everything started for us as soon as he started school (on 5th birthday here). After a few weeks we had major problems getting him to go there, and then were met with a request to see the school - they thought there was something wrong with him. His class teacher thought ADD/ADHD but his principal thought Autism. (did we know he could already read? Errr no, thought he had a really good memory though when he �read� his books to us). Anyway we mentioned this to his pediatrician who referred him for a psychological and psychiatric assessment. We saw both at the same appointment and they seemed quite amused when DS had a go at them because they hadn�t marked the calendar up to date! (he puts circles round the day starting and crosses it out when its done). They basically dismissed ADD/ADHD and Autism there and then and in effect said �we reckon you�ve got a very bright lad on your hands and the psychologist will see him again and run some tests�. All that happened (very quickly we thought) and she reported back the results (I�ll share these below). She was great � came to the school when we were struggling to get them to accept her recommendations and basically told them to move him up a year. Wow, it was awesome to watch, we are no shrinking violets but I could really see how without support parents can get railroaded by schools. Anyway the school did agree under duress to move him up and it was great in many ways, DS was at least then happy to go to school but when we had conversations with his new teacher we were met with comments like �my boys (DS obviously not considered a member of the class, more an extra) are finding it hard to make friends with him because he is a bit of a cry baby� and �I don�t know what else to do with him he is already reading and spelling at the highest level in the class�. It was clear DS was not going to be accepted here so we were given a recommendation for another school, not local, so I have to drive into town but small price to pay because in the space of one school term our sullen, bad tempered, argumentative, disruptive, cry-baby turned into some kind of �wunderkind�, it was amazing. The new school has a reputation for catering to GT kids and seemed to understand everything we had been through. They immediately put DS into a year 3 class (a 1 yr skip), (USA grade 2) at age 6ry, 3mo. We thought that was great and he seems so happy until we recently discovered that about 50% of his class are considered GT (some PG). So now we are worried about whether or not he is going to be able to keep up with it all. You might think - why should we worry if he�s happy etc. Well to be honest ignorance can be a great thing, then I started reading this forum and found out about test results etc so I asked his physch (clinical) for his actual scores, then panicked.

From what I can see (he did not get a FSIQ because of significant degree of scatter but a GAI � placing him in 92nd percentile), he does not qualify as GT at all. So I guess now I�m looking for some guidance/reassurance/explanation from all the knowledgable btdt folks on here.
DS was tested a year ago on the WISC IV and something called the WRAT3 (Wide Range Achievement Test), which I cannot find any information about on the web. His scores were:
WISC IV taken at 5yrs 8mo (comment from report � normally administered to children age 6 and over, deemed more appropriate in this case even if it resulted in a slight underestimation of true ability, due to probable ceiling effects with the Preschool assessment).
VCI: 130
Similarities: 16 98%
Vocab: 14 91%
Comp 15 95%
PRI: 108
Block: 13 84%
Pict Conc 14 91%
Matrix Reas 8 25% (comment in report � �unclear why he gained such a low Score. It may mean he has trouble seeing the overall �gestalt� of things or he may have misunderstood the task.)
Wkg Mem: 104
Letter/No. 13 84%
Digit Span 9 37%
Proc Speed: 91
Coding 8
Symbol 9
WRAT3
Reading 153 99.98 percentile
Spelling 139 99.1 percentile
Arithmetic 124 95th percentile
So do I have a Cheetah or maybe just a Cheetah Cub or is it a Leopard? Do I sit content at the moment that he is happy and worry about him if/when he gets out of his depth � at the rate he churns through work that may not be for a while but then what - do I hold him back a year? Or should I pay and get him retested at some stage?
He does have motor skill problems � his writing is still atrocious but improving, can't catch (oh and as first school pointed out in objecting to moving him up he can't jump rope or skip

) and he can�t sit still, he needs heaps of proprioceptive input, he does most of his school stood at his desk. He can do long multiplication but can�t watch The Lion King (too scary) and don�t start him on justice in the world!
Sorry its so long � so much to share and no-one to share with�