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My ds Benjy, 5y6m, is in kindergarten and recently identified borderline EG/PG -- given the WPPSI subtest ceilings, his score is in a gray area. His public school has not been making many accommodations for him -- they'll give a harder worksheet, but not teach anything else or follow that worksheet up, etc. So we're going in for a meeting tomorrow with his k teacher, the principal and the gifted teacher to figure out what to do for him. Ex-h is pulling hard for a grade skip NOW, while I'm just not sure Benjamin is ready. Then again, I can't figure out how many of his "issues" in school could be due to his tuning out a completely non-stimulating environment. He needs to be called repeatedly sometimes to get his attention, he isn't particularly careful with his backpack, lunch box, etc. Typical kindergartner issues ... and his handwriting is right on par for a first semester kindergartner. I'd rather wait until the end of the school year so that we can get him a little closer to where that next age group would be. On the other hand, I think that, with encouragement and the right environment, that he'd thrive with a skip now -- he might actually have to *learn* something, gasp! At least there would be more work and more chance to stay engaged at school. The other thing is that he's *very* suggestible through the behavior of others -- if the other kids are doing it, naughty or well-behaved, he'll be doing it too. So I'm thinking that if he were placed in an environment that was more suited to his needs, quite a few of his issues will clear up pretty quickly. He's also pretty good at consequence-type reinforcement; we had a reward system to help him get "green marks" for behavior at school when he was getting in trouble, and that worked like a charm. So a similar system may work well with his organizational issues -- again, if the school will work with us. I'm talking to ex-h tonight so that hopefully we'll be on the same page tomorrow ... Anyway, wish us luck! Mia
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Best of luck, Mia! I'm interested to know how it turns out.
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Just wanted to wish you luck with whatever you decide! I know that has to be a tough decision. I'm curious what the school has to say about the issue as well. Keep us posted!
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So much has to do with the recieving teacher. See if you can sit in on a possible recieving teacher to see if you think he would be able to handle it. That's more politic than saying that you want to check out the teacher.
Handwriting itself is something that just comes with time and practice. I wouldn't consider holding a kid back from an otherwise appropriate placement based on handwriting alone - I would order the "Handwriting without Tears" book and special writing paper, and work on it at home, particularly over the holiday break. It may not have visible results now, but it will eventually bear fruit. If you don't get results and can afford it, or get insurance to pay for it, there are OTs (Occupational Therapists) who are certified by the HWT folks who can do a diagnostic session and give some help catching up. By the time we were thinking "Gradeskip" it was later, and DS11 was already keyboarding, but even with his exclusive use of keyboarding last year, his handwriting improved last year. It must have been development, because it sure wasn't practice!
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Hi there Mia,
Incog here, you left me some encouraging works back on my "need advice communicating with kindergarten teacher" thread. I appreciated it!! Hope things went well with your talk at school today. Look forward to an update!! Advocating for your child can be a little draining sometimes. To me, working with the schools sometimes feels like herding cats. What you are doing is worthwhile, however, and will make a difference for your child on some level.
Peace, Incog
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Thanks for the encouraging words, ladies!
Our meeting went all right. They actually seemed much more impressed by Benjy's math than his reading, which surprised me; I've always seen Benjamin's reading as his strong point. But whatever.
He'll stay in his "advanced" reading group with another child from K (who doesn't read like Benjy does, but somehow Benjy only got to level 27 in their DRAs as opposed to his private testing, which put him much higher). They have a reading specialist come and work with them for 20 minutes, four days a week; they pointed out that this is more than he would get in a first grade classroom for now.
And the kindergarten class is set to take their MAP testing (Measure of Academic Progress) in January, but they're going to do Benjy's MAP math assessment in December. If his math testing puts him at the right level (and it should, if he pays any attention at all), he'll be pulled out to first grade for math, probably the advanced first grade math group that meets with the gifted teacher. They told us that group is working on stuff like perimeter, which would be right up Benjy's alley.
We've all agreed to see what happens, and how he seems to be responding to the first grade classroom, and follow up again in January to consider a full-grade skip next fall.
I think this is a great solution for us. The thing that bothered me was that the principal is one of *those* principals -- she's a principal for the ages, the type of person you picture when you think "principal." It's hard to explain, but you'd know her if you saw her! Anyway, she kept talking about social and emotional impacts of a skip. *All* the recent research shows that for kids at this level, skips *are* the best thing you can do socially and emotionally.
Obviously there are some exceptions, but she was talking about this being a very risky move, which I just don't see it to be. I wanted to pull a bunch of papers out and wave them around but decided that, at this point, it would do more harm than good! So we'll wait for a while on that.
I guess I'm fairly happy, but they kept bringing up issues without proposing any possible solutions -- mainly Benjy's scatterbrainedness, a trait which he exhibits at home as well. They also pointed out his age-appropriate handwriting, which made me want to scream, but they didn't sound like that was a main concern for them. We're going to work on being more responsible for our own things at home, and we've been working on handwriting as well. Hopefully that will translate to the classroom; his writing is already seeing an improvement.
What an interesting road this is!
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That sound promising Mia. Be sure to ask for the detailed test results from the MAP tests. The testing company provide a 30 page detailed report with all kinds of specific info about the child on request. If it is the MAP test I am thinking of, it will self correct itself and put the child at their readiness level for most of the test. Translation: You will really get quite a look at his functioning, no stopping when the child maxes out gradelevel expectations!
Math seems to be easier for schools to recognise than reading, although I'm not sure why that is. Is it possible for you to observe the reading specialist? 20 minutes 4 days a week sounds very impressive, and might be, or might not be, depending on what actually is going on during those 20 minutes. Another question I have is "why?" Why wouldn't the specialist come to him and the strongest 1st grade reader if he was placed in 1st grade?
I'm sorry I've forgotten, Mia, but was your son early enteranced to K? Is he old or young compared to the rest of his classmates?
As for the Princip. I only suggest refering her/him to the educators guild, a Davidson Program for educators.
I can only imagine what the big deal is with grade skipping that frightened all these folks! Was it perhaps that the grade skip was the end of the accomidation, and not the base for subject acceleration? If the only kids who are allowed a single grade skip are the ones who need 3 or 4, then yes, you are going to see a lot of pathetic little single skippers. Very sad. It's like saying Antibiotics don't help with infections if there is a strong custom to only allow perscribing the antibiotic at one tenth the effective dose. ((shrug))
I'd seriously love to know what really is going on! Trinity
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I can only imagine what the big deal is with grade skipping that frightened all these folks! Was it perhaps that the grade skip was the end of the accomidation, and not the base for subject acceleration? If the only kids who are allowed a single grade skip are the ones who need 3 or 4, then yes, you are going to see a lot of pathetic little single skippers. Very sad. It's like saying Antibiotics don't help with infections if there is a strong custom to only allow perscribing the antibiotic at one tenth the effective dose. ((shrug)) I think you're on to something here, Trin.
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Yes, it's the self-correcting MAP test. The principal was ridiculously excited about it; I think this is one of the first years they've used it. I'm really interested to see how he does. They refused to give him the MAP reading test early, which I thought was kind of odd; she said that it wouldn't make a difference in his placement since they already did the DRA. Not sure I believe that, but we can wait the month; if he's able to go for math and does well, I hope they'll let him try reading, too.
Actually, after speaking with the principal, I'm fairly impressed with the differentiation that goes on in the school as a whole. They do individualized reading groups, up to seven in a class, which I think is fabulous. They are also, it seemed, quite willing to pull a kindergartner to first grade math (although she said it was "not uncommon," which makes me wonder how challenging the first grade math will really be).
Anyway, yes, Benjy would be put with the strongest readers in the first grade class. Trouble is, since his DRA score wasn't very high (I mean it was, but not for him), there might not really be a higher reading group in first grade, depending on the kids. Or at least that was what it sounded like to me, from what the principal was saying; he'd be in the same level group as if he were in K, just with older kids. I suggested that, if the math pullout worked well, he also do reading with the older kids, to see how he'd do with that. The principal seemed at least receptive to that.
They just seem to be very strong proponents of the "keep the kids with their age group" philosophy; but all the research I've read suggests that this is *not* the best for most EG/PG children and that they are actually happier with the older children. I don't know how to point this out without sounding like a big giant know-it-all, which I'm most certainly not. I will check out the educator's guild, thanks!
The other thing was that the K teacher and the principal kept talking about the other "strong reader" in Benjy's class. We know this child; his mother, while volunteering in the classroom, figured out that Benjy could read and struck up a friendship with us. We've gone over for playdates for the kids (they're good buddies) and discussion for us about the school situation, so I know what's going on with this kid. And I know that he's bright (memorizes maps for fun), with some *major* sensitivities going on. But he's just not on the same level as Benjy. He's reading, according to his mom, reading on a first or second grade level. They'll get the same math enrichment sheets (some pattern drawing, some word problems like, "If you had 16 cookies and you gave 7 to a friend, how many would you have left?", etc.). Benjy got them all right; the other little boy didn't get them because, his mom said, "The teacher didn't teach it, she just gave them sheet."
As I say, the other little guy is certainly very bright. He's just not where Benj is. So I wish the teacher would stop pretending that they have "many" children like this!
Benjamin is a May birthday, so he's on the younger side (September cut off), but no early entrance. I know that his school *does* do early entrance; there is a child in Benjy's class who just turned 5 a few weeks a go. He was in Montessori Early Childhood for the year before he started at his public school.
I'm sending his DYS application off today or tomorrow ... I've got my fingers crossed. It sounds so helpful.
Mia
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Mia, Im glad that there seems to be some positive "wheels in motion". Your school sounds pretty proactive, which Im starting to learn is not as common everywhere. (which is such a disservice). Oh, regarding the handwriting; I just have to add that my dd7 had the worlds worst penmanship! It would drive me nuts, being the anal perfectionist that I am! It was horrible. The problem with dd is that she would think faster than she could write and did not care AT ALL how it looked on paper. We still had problems with her handwriting last year in 1st grade! Finally, a light went on and she's improved 10-fold. Her 2nd grade teacher is big on neat writing and it has helped dd tremendously. Phew! Im so relieved. Hopefully your sons penmanship improves sooner than my dd's but I honestly wouldn't worry too much! GL! Trinity, "It's like saying Antibiotics don't help with infections if there is a strong custom to only allow perscribing the antibiotic at one tenth the effective dose" Excellent point!
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