Further to the situation outlined in the above posts, we have met with the independent (not the school's)psychologist, and, after a lengthy discussion, decided to proceed with neuropsych. testing to rule out (please!) attention deficit for our DS7. My question now: Does anyone have any advice on talking with your child about testing (i.e., that testing is going to happen; why testing is being done)? I have given it a lot of thought, and hope that I will present it in a way that will not make him anxious. When the IQ and achievement testing was done at school, he didn't know it was coming, and never (believe it or not) mentioned it to us when it was ongoing or completed! Guess he just thought it was a challenging and fun exercise...a welcomed break from the "usual"!
I am hopeful that some seasoned veterans here might be willing to share suggestions on how best to put your child at ease about testing (?)