I am confused Chris, dd2 is delelopmentally delayed? If so how do you know?
Oh, no, at least I don't think so. I meant I would have thought - ds when he was 3 does not compare as well with dd now, who is almost 3...she is very very verbal and all over the place with her bossiness.
Actually! maybe I should use 'cognitively delayed', neither of them are, but to be more precise. Turns out ds is probably 2e, with some social delays and some processing speed issue, but we are still working out the details on that...but I never really thought that seriously about him. These are very mild issues in the grand scheme of things and some of it is just gtness.