Hi Jill:

I agree with the advice that a gifted program or magnet or charter school may not be enough if your kids are EG or PG. Often with such schools you may find that staff are unwilling to modify for your particular child, because they think your kids are just lucky to be there.

I think it's more important to call the principal at the school you r kids would attend and get an impression on their openness to modifying the curriculum.