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    I'm contemplating moving HG dd to a private school in hopes of getting her needs met. The one we are considering has been open 10 years and has excellent reviews and I've never heard anything bad about it. It is small with only 4 kids in 3rd grade and a total of about 30 kids (k-8 grades). I see that this would be a benefit because it's nearly one on one instruction and they also place the students where the need to be placed regardless of age/grade without grade skipping.

    I was wondering anybody else has had experiences with such a small school and your thoughts as to how this could be a good thing or a bad thing.


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    #1 was in private schools with class sizes of about 6 per grade (often fewer) for a while. I expect it is always highly-dependent on the staff and administration. In one of the schools, the administration did not place any obstacles, but also was not equipped to mandate that teachers individualize, so our experience varied by the teacher. The other school, the administration was willing (even enthusiastic), and implemented a grade skip on their own (would have been nice to know about it beforehand, but we certainly had no objection), but individualized beyond that mainly on the teachers' initiative. The teachers, however, were delighted to make adjustments, and even made placement changes mid-year, and proposed SSAs.

    I think it's really critical to make somewhat lengthy site visits to the prospective school, as the kind of adaptability and pedagogical openness that you will need is difficult to assess based on a website, or their documents.


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    My children have been in a small private school with relatively small class sizes. aeh has summed up the things to think through re the program well - I'll add a few things that I'd suggest you look into re the school itself.

    It's important to not just look at the academics, but with small private schools you'll also want to look at the business side of things. Being a small school may be great, but I'd ask these questions of the school:

    1) What is their goal for # of students / grade and goal for # of students in school?

    2) Why, after 10 years in operation, do they only have 10 enrolled students?

    3) What are the admissions requirements (actually ask, don't just rely on what their website says or what first is told to you). If there is testing involved or required test scores, go ahead and ask if all of the students currently enrolled had the required test scores.

    4) Ask how many students they had last year, and ask what their yearly turn-over rate is, and why students/families leave the school.

    5) How long has the head of school been in place? How long has most of the staff been teaching at the school? You're trying to judge turn-over here.

    6) They may not answer this, but I'd ask anyway - how much do they pay their teachers relative to your local public schools?

    7) Do they rent or own the building they are in? How long is their lease? Have they been in the same location for the past 10 years?

    8) Who is on their Board of Directors? Is it primarily parents? Community members? A mix?

    9) How does their tuition compare with other local private schools? If it is significantly higher or lower, ask why. This is a good set of data to have - if you don't know what other schools are charging for tuition, check into it - this is info you can often find online.

    10) How do their teachers' salaries compare with teachers' salaries in your local school district?

    11) What percentage of the school's budget goes to teacher's salaries vs school supplies vs building expenses vs marketing? (They might not share that info with you, but it is interesting info to have).

    12) Where does the money required to run the school come from? Obviously part of the money comes from tuition, but with such a small school tuition alone isn't going to be anywhere near enough (unless it's exorbitant tuition, which would most likely price the school out of business). What percentage comes from fundraising, and what are the expectations on each family for giving expectations and for helping with fundraising.


    A few other things I'd consider asking:

    1) How does this school's curriculum compare to your state's curriculum standards and your local school district's curriculum?

    2) If it's a school for lower grades (no secondary or high school), I'd ask where the kids who leave go to high school typically, and how they fit in, what the issues are etc.

    3) What is the educational background of the teachers? Which teachers will your child be working with?

    Please know that none of my questions above are meant to be discouraging - the info is good to have. I've been involved with three different private schools, two of which had significant financial challenges that were definitely not advertised to prospective families wink Also please know - it's very possible to have a school that looks horrible in terms of financial set-up, yet is an excellent school day-to-day for students. The risk is - what happens if a school goes under and your child has to switch tools again.

    Good luck making your decision!

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    30 kids k through 8 means 4 is a actually a large class. How many teachers do they have to teach so few children, and are they qualified between them to teach such a large age range in all required subjects? Can they demonstrate experience in teaching HG (as opposed it bright to MG) children? What is the population they serve like - will your dd have peers? 4 is an awfully small number to find someone to click with. Can she shadow, or enrol for a trial period? If you do enrol her, what is your financial commitment if things go downhill - and in such a tiny school, it sounds as if things could go from great to horrible pretty fast. Her one true peer leaving could be it. And if she does have to leave the school, what are her options?

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    Originally Posted by polarbear
    My children have been in a small private school with relatively small class sizes. aeh has summed up the things to think through re the program well - I'll add a few things that I'd suggest you look into re the school itself.

    It's important to not just look at the academics, but with small private schools you'll also want to look at the business side of things. Being a small school may be great, but I'd ask these questions of the school:

    1) What is their goal for # of students / grade and goal for # of students in school?

    2) Why, after 10 years in operation, do they only have 10 enrolled students?
    Honestly I think the reason is they are in a very small building and don't really have the space to have more than 30 students. It's been this way for the entire 10 years they have been in operation.

    3) What are the admissions requirements (actually ask, don't just rely on what their website says or what first is told to you). If there is testing involved or required test scores, go ahead and ask if all of the students currently enrolled had the required test scores.

    I don't think students have to have a certain score on a test to get in, but they do test with the Woodcock Johnson to determine placement.

    4) Ask how many students they had last year, and ask what their yearly turn-over rate is, and why students/families leave the school.

    I don't have an answer for this but the director did tell me they had one student who left last year because her family moved 45 min away and they thought they'd enroll her at her local school. It turned out to be a horrible fit so they now drive to this private school everyday. I also have a friend who had a friend whose son went to the school last year and loved it. He doesn't go this year because he moved out of state.

    5) How long has the head of school been in place? How long has most of the staff been teaching at the school? You're trying to judge turn-over here.
    This is actually a concern of mine, while meeting with the director I learned that they lost quite a few teachers last year.

    6) They may not answer this, but I'd ask anyway - how much do they pay their teachers relative to your local public schools?

    7) Do they rent or own the building they are in? How long is their lease? Have they been in the same location for the past 10 years?

    8) Who is on their Board of Directors? Is it primarily parents? Community members? A mix?

    9) How does their tuition compare with other local private schools? If it is significantly higher or lower, ask why. This is a good set of data to have - if you don't know what other schools are charging for tuition, check into it - this is info you can often find online.

    Their tuition is actually a bit pricier than that of other private schools in the area. I would say about 10-20% more expensive.

    10) How do their teachers' salaries compare with teachers' salaries in your local school district?

    11) What percentage of the school's budget goes to teacher's salaries vs school supplies vs building expenses vs marketing? (They might not share that info with you, but it is interesting info to have).

    12) Where does the money required to run the school come from? Obviously part of the money comes from tuition, but with such a small school tuition alone isn't going to be anywhere near enough (unless it's exorbitant tuition, which would most likely price the school out of business). What percentage comes from fundraising, and what are the expectations on each family for giving expectations and for helping with fundraising.


    A few other things I'd consider asking:

    1) How does this school's curriculum compare to your state's curriculum standards and your local school district's curriculum?

    2) If it's a school for lower grades (no secondary or high school), I'd ask where the kids who leave go to high school typically, and how they fit in, what the issues are etc.

    The director said most students go to a very prestigious private high school about 30 minutes from here.

    3) What is the educational background of the teachers? Which teachers will your child be working with?

    Most of the teachers have a masters in Education/curriculum.

    Please know that none of my questions above are meant to be discouraging - the info is good to have. I've been involved with three different private schools, two of which had significant financial challenges that were definitely not advertised to prospective families wink Also please know - it's very possible to have a school that looks horrible in terms of financial set-up, yet is an excellent school day-to-day for students. The risk is - what happens if a school goes under and your child has to switch tools again.

    Good luck making your decision!

    polarbear
    I put what I could answer in bold.

    All good questions, and you have very good points. I do worry about the stability of it because we had a situation in the past with older dd who was in a private montessori school that closed mid-year without notice and zero options for us. Currently younger dd (the one I'm considering for the private school) is in a gifted program that you have to apply a school year in advance to get into.

    I'm torn about what to do with dd, she is unhappy with the math instruction at her current school. She spends an hour of math on a computer doing ten marks and iready. She rarely gets math instruction with a teacher. They have a curriculum they are using called Project M3 and usually that consists of her teacher giving out the project/assignment and telling them to figure it out. They want the kids to be able to work the problems out on their own or fail at it and correct it. With Project M3 they spent the first 3 months doing area and perimeter and now they have been doing volume (measurement) for about a month.

    I am also concerned because I have heard from multiple parents whose students finished this gifted program and went on to middle school and struggled. They were not ready academically for the AP classes. Turns out in the older grades in the program they worked in groups for math and some kids never did their own work and just copied what the group wrote down. How a teacher can not tell a student isn't doing the work or understanding the work for a full year is mind boggling.

    I have suspicions that dd may have Asperger's and one benefit of the gifted program she is in is they have a social worker that comes to the class and works on social skills with the students. Dd even told me that she finds the social skills class very helpful and told me that she relates to the "Unwonderer" character:

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    She says this is because she willtalk on and on without realizing that others aren't interested and doesn't give them a chance to be part of the conversation. This was evident last night when my friend came over and dd is very excited about her play she is putting on and she wouldn't stop talking about it, the friend would make a comment completely unrelated to the play, dd would stare at her, and then continue on talking about her play. So while dd is aware that this is a struggle for her she still doesn't always realize she is doing it. So long story short I think the social skills class is something she really needs and could benefit her. Now I'm hesitant to move her to a different school where she would be challenged academically but socially she wouldn't make progress.

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    Originally Posted by Tigerle
    30 kids k through 8 means 4 is a actually a large class. How many teachers do they have to teach so few children, and are they qualified between them to teach such a large age range in all required subjects? Can they demonstrate experience in teaching HG (as opposed it bright to MG) children? What is the population they serve like - will your dd have peers? 4 is an awfully small number to find someone to click with. Can she shadow, or enrol for a trial period? If you do enrol her, what is your financial commitment if things go downhill - and in such a tiny school, it sounds as if things could go from great to horrible pretty fast. Her one true peer leaving could be it. And if she does have to leave the school, what are her options?

    When I toured there were 5 different classrooms with mixed ages. There are 6 different teachers (including science/stem, foreign language, music, etc...). The kids can move to and from classrooms based on their academic needs. They also have lunch altogether so it has a sort of montessori feel to it and dd would be able to be with older kids - she does better with either kids older than her or younger than her. They do a lot of hands on learning so while they do do some worksheets they will actually do hands on projects related to what they are learning (i.e. when they were learning about cells they then made their own cells out of marshmallows, when they learned about the solar system they made model solar systems out of Styrofoam balls, etc..) Dd is much more of a visual learner so this would be ideal for her imo.

    She is actually scheduled to do a 2 day shadow to try it out which I really like. However, as I mentioned in my reply to polarbear, moving back to her current school would be a difficult option... and then add to it the financial burden of private school.

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    Before we started homeschooling, DD was at a very small private school -- <50 kids for K-6. The classes were mixed age. It had some very nice advantages. All the teachers (all 4 or 5 of them) knew all the kids; kids were more ability-grouped than age-grouped; kids were able to work ahead at their own pace, particularly in math; the whole school would play together at recess, so that kids of different ages learned to intermix very comfortably. Another advantage was that the school was able to offer a LOT for a very reasonable price, because they didn't have a lot of overhead.

    But one thing I discovered this Fall is that even with class sizes as small as 9, it is still difficult for teachers to be totally on top of keeping each kid working at their own level. The K-1st teacher was masterful at this, so much so that she made it look easy and I didn't appreciate how awesome she was.

    DD's new teacher this year was not nearly as good at it. Her solution was to start everyone off in the math book, and have them work through every single page at their own pace. Those who were willing to buckle down and work quickly got ahead; those who didn't stayed behind, and (in my DD's case) endlessly worked the same kind of problem they had already mastered.

    I also learned, as I got to know parents of older students a little better, that in the older grades pretty much no actual teaching of math happens. The kids are set to work on their workbooks, read the explanations for themselves, and raise their hands for help if they don't understand. The teacher spends the period going around answering individual questions. Kids sometimes sit for 10 or 15 minutes doing nothing while they wait their turn. This is the school's trade-off for individualizing student progress.

    Another thing I became aware of (again, when DD moved out of the sweet little K-1st room) is that, because the space for the whole school is small, crowd-control is a huge issue, so that students can concentrate on their work. This means that there is a lot less noisy, active, participatory learning than I thought when I first visited the school. There is a lot of being quiet and working at tables.

    These were some of the issues (but only some) that tipped me over to homeschooling.

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    I have suspicions that dd may have Asperger's and one benefit of the gifted program she is in is they have a social worker that comes to the class and works on social skills with the students. Dd even told me that she finds the social skills class very helpful and told me that she relates to the "Unwonderer" character
    That character seems to come from the Social Thinking website. Have you discussed your concerns about Asperger's with the small private school? Might they also offer social skills support?

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    Originally Posted by indigo
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    I have suspicions that dd may have Asperger's and one benefit of the gifted program she is in is they have a social worker that comes to the class and works on social skills with the students. Dd even told me that she finds the social skills class very helpful and told me that she relates to the "Unwonderer" character
    That character seems to come from the Social Thinking website. Have you discussed your concerns about Asperger's with the small private school? Might they also offer social skills support?

    Actually when I toured the small private school I was describing dd, her interests, etc... and the director flat out asked if she has ever been evaluated for Asperger's. They said they have a student with Asperger's already (a girl). I didn't go into too much detail as to how they handle social skills. I was going to wait and see how dd likes the school first.

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    Originally Posted by mountainmom2011
    Originally Posted by indigo
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    I have suspicions that dd may have Asperger's and one benefit of the gifted program she is in is they have a social worker that comes to the class and works on social skills with the students. Dd even told me that she finds the social skills class very helpful and told me that she relates to the "Unwonderer" character
    That character seems to come from the Social Thinking website. Have you discussed your concerns about Asperger's with the small private school? Might they also offer social skills support?

    Actually when I toured the small private school I was describing dd, her interests, etc... and the director flat out asked if she has ever been evaluated for Asperger's. They said they have a student with Asperger's already (a girl). I didn't go into too much detail as to how they handle social skills. I was going to wait and see how dd likes the school first.

    I wanted to add that between my suspicions, dd's relating to the character unwonderer and also the time awhile back where she watched the episode of Arthur where there was a boy with Asperger's and she said that she feels like him (and then continued to watch that episode over and over)... I just feel like it's more likely than not she probably is on the spectrum somewhere. I'm very impressed with her self-awareness.

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