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    DeeDee, I agree with your assessment (my comment was intended to be a little tongue in cheek). However I don't think the hypothesis requires a conspiracy so much as a lot of complacency. If someone in the chain knows that the person above them is much more negative about those requests, it's easier and less confrontational to simply smile and nod and agree with what the parent says, or to offer lots of nice sounding prizes, knowing full well that it won't happen anyway. After all why should the teacher have to be the bad guy, when the principle will do it for them (or substitute "principal" and "district")?

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    In this case I'm pretty sure it's not the teacher: I would bet she has no experience with the administration's attitude toward these issues. And our district has a real reputation for expecting everything to work in lockstep.

    The thing is, I feel like it's a pretty basic concept that kids with ADHD will behave worse if bored; so even if DD wasn't PG, it would be basic good special ed services to differentiate an area of the curriculum where any ADHD child was much ahead of the group. And I have said as much before. So far my experience has been very similar to beating my head into a concrete wall repeatedly.

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    I think you might be moving into our school district... possibly even school. Does the city you're considering start with a "B" and the school you're considering start with an "S"?

    If so, read on.

    It is a really awesome school and yes, the principal is wonderful. Really child-focused, person-focused, learning-focused, a great center for the hyper-competitive school district parents. laugh

    "But it is apparently easier to break into Fort Knox than get a PG child admitted to a gifted program here, even though I've put an offer on a house and produced for them buckets of test scores."

    Yes and no. It's not hard if you're willing to wait. They have so. many. people. advocating for their own children. If they took special requests, they would be dealing with about 10% of the population on a daily basis. So they are hard as rocks in terms of following the process because so many people demand exceptions. This is a high-performance, high-ESL, high-IQ, high-competition area. Your story is not so much the exception as the rule here, so they aren't going to see your daughter as needing special services so much as needing the same services as all the other kids who are bright, have a disadvantage (ESL, ASD, ADHD, etc.) but whose parents are incredibly smart and motivated. This is a district where over 400 people have stayed on a waiting list for three years for a lottery middle-high school experience. Three years at the end of a 400-person waiting list.

    Once you enter the school as a regular student, it's quite simple: get recommended for testing (nearly everyone even a bit above grade level is), go to your appointed time hell or high water, and wait for the results, which come after the board meeting, in March.

    However, given that you are moving during the summer, I'm sure you've seen this online if we're talking about the same district--they do allow special applications and you can do the COGAT privately.

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    binip, that's not, alas, where we're going BUT I'm actually really well acquainted with that school (nice!) and program (nice curriculum) and principal (much respect for her!) and think DD would do well there. And you're right about the crazy hyper-competitive parents around here. They are nuts and I do feel like the hard line id in response to that.

    But we're heading north, to the land of slightly more affordable real estate, 1 district north.

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    Aha... I wonder if it would be a bit easier for you down here, but I doubt it, though yes we are SO lucky to be in this school, as competitive as it may be around here.

    They actually showed "The Race to Nowhere" at the school and said "parents of college-bound kids are encouraged to attend!" LOL! Dear parents, you are officially being asked to chill the heck out.

    We can't buy here yet but are renting. I'm applying for a second job to save up for a down payment. I went through a divorce a couple of years ago and depleted all the savings I had left over from the recession (still worth it!). I really feel for you. Best of luck!

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