Our 6 year old (1st grade) son was tested for the gifted program last week and we obtained the results in the mail yesterday. We have an IEP meeting scheduled for next week. Apparently, the State of Florida uses the Reynolds Intelligence Assessment Scale, which I had never heard of. Here are his results:
CIX(Composite)-155 (99.99%)
VIX(Verbal)-150 (99.96%)
NIX(Non-Verbal)-144 (99.83%)
These results were followed by this recommendation:
*Regular elementary class supplemented with gifted resource room one full day per week. Other options were rejected because they provided an environment that is too restrictive.
Here are my concerns:
1. My son has already been singled out by peers as "weird." I don't see this changing as long as he's in a general classroom. His friends at after school care are ALL at least 8 years old. He does not connect with kids his age.
2. I had to push to have him tested. If the school couldn't recognize his needs, I have a hard time believing they can provide for them. In kindergarten, the principal actually suggested we put in back in Pre-K since his fine motor skills were behind.

3. I was a little floored by his scores on the RIAS. I thought we'd see that he was slightly above the cut-off point of 130. Doesn't he fall in the highly gifted category? Why the recommendation for a pull out program and not full-time gifted? Perhaps because his particular school only has pull-out? We have school choice in our county, so he can go to other schools. . .
Any insight or personal stories anyone can give would be helpful. I just want him to have the best education possible. He's already bored in school and doesn't like going in the morning. I can't see a pull out program being appropriate for him. I love his quirkly personality and funny jokes, and I don't want to see that squelched. . .
Thanks!