LOL-- I just have to say "THANK YOU" to Melessa for sharing the specific number.
I, too, feel like a much less... er... "invasive" parent.

But don't feel bad-- I think that during DD's 7th grade year, we had even more than that... that was the year that we had four 504 meetings, including one in which I distinctly recall frostily asking counsel "Interesting. Is that "cannot?" Or is it "will not?" There IS a difference."

again.
I got so that I would apologize FIRST when I called anyone at school that year... I'm pretty sure that the principal eventually recognized my number on caller ID and cringed.
The above anecdote is to note merely that one CAN recover from such a toxic environment (through advocacy, of course!!) and even have things be somewhat normative again afterwards.
