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    I just got a box of my mom's papers (mom died 7 years ago, brother had stuff, brother died in February, stuff is trickling down) and found the report cards Mom had saved for another brother. This particular brother is a rocket scientist, literally.

    This is a page of notes from one year of school, it doesn't say which year. It's in a chart with boxes for "Comprehension - Speed in Reading", "Reading Habits", "Competency in Writing", "Language Skills", "Vocabulary Building", "Classroom Discussion", "Special Learning Problems", "Classroom Behavior", and "Study Habits", and going across the top is each period of the school year.

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    He reads exceptionally well, understanding exactly what he reads. He concentrates very well. He's imaginative but disorganized. His work is sloppy but he knows what he's doing. He can make excellent comments -- He's a quick thinker. He daydreams a lot and often talks too much. He has a great tendency to loaf. There is no excuse for this as he is a good reader and a potentially-- (it leaves off here so I don't know what was next).

    12 weeks

    His work is quite below what I feel he is capable of doing. His work is messy and disorganized. He has been told to take work home but fails to do so. He has become a problem. He wastes 90% of his time and is constantly on the verge of being a little disrespectful.

    18 weeks

    -- should be bringing home work quite frequently. This would help him make up for the time he wastes in class. He daydreams quite frequently. I would appreciate any helpful suggestions or cooperation from home. He does express himself very well. His manners seem improved, but his study habits are not.

    24 weeks

    The same still applies. Perhaps a conference would be helpful. He is one of the finalists in the spelling contest.

    30 weeks

    -- seems to enjoy working individually. However, he will not do work he does not choose to. (Actually, this said he will no do work he does not chose to. Urgh) Unfortunately, this is causing him to miss many important basic skills.

    36 weeks

    -- has shown a great improvement in attitude and willingness to complete assignments. He is presently working on several special projects and doing very well, I might add.

    There is another note, from second grade, actually from two different periods of the year:

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    -- seems content to skim the surface rather than to delve deeply into a subject. I would suggest testing him to see if he is gifted. If he were grouped with others of comparable capabilities perhaps they would give him the "spark" and the competition needed.

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    I should like to encourage independent work. -- is capable of doing research into fields of interest. He is entering into group activities more. He seems more relaxed.

    I also found a junior high report card that had "Social Promotion" written across the bottom, with a lot of very bad grades. smile

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    If I didn't know better, I would have thought you'd been digging through my papers and found my oldest son's reports. Ha ha.

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    Yeah, I was laughing too hard at it, and ended up having to read it to DS9 when he wondered what was so funny -- he kept saying "me! that's me!" laugh

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    What a precious gift to share with DS9 and with us. Thank you.


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    I found some of my own report cards when I was going through my mom's things four years ago, too-- the one report card comment that stuck with me was;


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    {Name} speaks well-- and often.


    Most of the commentary was similarly euphemistic. I think that many of my teachers knew my mom professionally, so they knew that there was no need to be more specific about the sorts of...



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    challenges some of these characteristics posed in a classroom setting.

    I believe that my second grade teacher also noted that if my 'tenacity' were applied 'more productively' that he had no idea what I might be capable of. LOL. I had a thing about not doing work I didn't feel like doing, too. It was after 2nd grade that my mom and the school evidently went toward placing me in split classrooms, so that I could work at a higher level and still be placed with agemates. The mulish behavior didn't go away, of coursem, and neither did the talking. blush


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    My mother recalls that, when yet another teacher reported to her that "your child is not working up to her potential", I responded "if I never work up to my potential, what makes you think I have any? Maybe this is as good as I get."

    I had just turned eight.
    (And as I recall, I got in trouble for being fresh-- though I wasn't trying to be, I really was curious.)

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    Originally Posted by eldertree
    My mother recalls that, when yet another teacher reported to her that "your child is not working up to her potential", I responded "if I never work up to my potential, what makes you think I have any? Maybe this is as good as I get."

    I had just turned eight.
    (And as I recall, I got in trouble for being fresh-- though I wasn't trying to be, I really was curious.)

    Now that sounds like something I would say ...err...would have said! laugh I've always wondered how they know how much potential you might have!

    Would you call that "constantly on the verge of being a little disrespectful?"

    My own report cards also have a few comments about not completing assignments and not turning in homework. I can see now that my mother was probably more prepared for the grade slump that I suffered in high school than I imagined her to be -- I remember hiding my report card for as long as possible back then.

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    Originally Posted by Nautigal
    Would you call that "constantly on the verge of being a little disrespectful?"

    My own personal affliction... eek


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    I had saved my old report cards to be able to show to my DD when the time was right. They were full of praise, plus comments about sloppy handwriting, too much talking, and missing homework.

    Now she's 7, the time is right, and I can't seem to find any of them. Figures. I wanted to show them to her to reinforce the idea that if she gets her name written on the board every once in a while, I'm not going to worry about it. She's trying too hard to be a teacher pleaser.

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    Teacher pleasing is the only reason that my grades didn't suffer (except a bobble with a really awful 5th grade teacher) until my sophomore year in high school. I was a teacher's pet and liked to do school work, even if it was too easy.

    I suspect my brother was not so interested in pleasing teachers.

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