I've read that the Stanford-Binet is better for math kids, and the WISC-IV better for verbal kids, but he's only 5 (just turned 5) and I don't think he's able to take the WISC yet. Any advise from those of you who have gone through a similar experience? Thanks-
Heather
I think an IQ number will be helpful in knowing 'what you've got' in front of you - clearly he is on an different developmental path than 99.5% of the adult advisors you meet will be familiar with. Obviously WISC 4 isn't possible unless you wait. So SB is the way to go. They are very similar in most ways. An achievement test is a nice compliment to round out the picture, but I don't think it will help you much in placement.
Sad truth is that for a kid like yours, placement is a bit of trial and error. In the beginning I naively thought that if I could just find the right test, it would tell me exactly where my kid was academically and where to start at school. NOT.
But in retrospect, that helped me understand that flexibility was going to be my strongest ally in the task ahead - raising a kid where all the predicitions for how he 'should' be were just plain wrong.
I would recommend that if you got to the trouble of testing, you find a tester who tests kids with IQ scores over 140 on a regular basis, at least monthly. Part of what you are getting from the investment of your time, money and hope is a relationship with a professional who will be the exception to your current experience of being disbelieved and left on your own. Local tester generally spend the bulk of their time with kids who have significant challenges. A tester with out this particular expertise will probably slip back into denial the minute the scoring is completed, and even if not, how much clinical experience can they have. I hate it when a tester says 'That's the highest IQ score I've ever tested.' because it means (IMO) 'All the things I think I know about kids, and that I'll repeat to you with great conviction, actually don't apply to your kid, but I'll say them anyway, out of habit.'
A book like '5 levels of giftedness' by Deb Ruf, might be enough support for you to decide you can wait for the testing until you can set up a vacation and travel for testing.
I would definitely try to talk to some local friends who are using the online school and get a look at collection of materials from whatever grade level you think might be appropriate. It may be that with an 'out of the box' kid that a packaged curriculum isn't going to work at any level. Sometimes state online schools 'don't allow' gradeskips even with testing. Letting the public schools do their own testing is helpful in a way, even though they don't have that particular expertise, because they they 'really believe' it.
srry to go on and on, but I've been there and it's heavy to face so much attitude from well meaning people.
Love and More Love,
Grinity