My boys can almost recite my rant. There is no such thing as girl toys and boy toys...there are just toys. There is no such thing as girl books and boy books...just books. You look at each toy or book and evaluate if that would be something that would interest you.
LOL, I have the same rant! Although with my DS at 3 and 4 in pre-K, not so much now (possibly because he knows the reaction) it was not about books as much as it was about colors and characters - pink, princesses, blue, etc. and it's actually hard to find books with girl characters that are outside of gender stereotypes, which is really disappointing! Even seemingly gender neutral characters are often refered to as he, I loved it when elephant of elephant and piggy turned out to be a girl (or maybe it was the reverse, it was awhile ago!)
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