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    My almost ten year old son says one of his favorite things to read is "thought provoking books" and he likes for us to read them together so we can discuss them. He liked reading "The Giver." He is currently enjoying Brave New World and Reclaiming Science from Darwinism. He loved the March issue of National Geographic's "Inside Animal Minds." He was interested in psychology for a while and now he is learning about law and legal issues, his interest sparked by a video game and court shows and listening to his cousin's new husband who is in his last semester of law school talk about working with people who on death row. These are things the average kid his age are just not interested in. He says they are all sports kids--something he is definitely not.

    I think we might read Animal Farm next. Not even his older gifted friends are interested in reading any of these books, so that leaves only me or sometimes my husband for him to talk to about them. I know there are people in my town that think it is wrong to let a child read some of these books, but my husband thinks it is okay and I am also enjoying reading these books. But I think reading and enjoying the books he reads sometimes contributes to his feelings of being different. His doctor suggested making him watch cartoons so he would have more to talk about with kids his age. He didn't want to watch cartoons and I didn't make him.

    I know people think we are weird. I could feel the guys who replaced our heating and air system watching us as my son listened to Mythbusters and then a history show about World War II dogfights while simultateously working on spelling bee words and definitions and then stopping to look up on the laptop what his allowance would be in yen. I know they were listening because my son said he would like to try a Japanese restaurant some time and one of the guys told him he knew where a good one was located. My son said he would love to actually go to other countries, especially Japan, to experience other cultures. Nobody talked to him after that. If he had been a sports kid, they would have talked football, but nobody knows what to say to my kid. It is uncomfortable sometimes. They ask him what sport he does and he says he doesn't do sports, he does musical theater and they just say "oh" and that is the end of it. The same thing happens when he tells them about the spelling bee. He hears these same adults talking to other kids about sports and they say a lot more to them than just "oh" and he can't help but notice this and feel like he doesn't fit in.

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    Orwell and H.G. Wells would probably be where I would send your DS, if you're looking for other titles...


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    Oh boy, this is a topic that's been on my mind for the last couple months. GS8 has reached a reading level & interest that books like 'The Giver' are options. I was telling him the plot of 'Fahrenheit 451' last night. But, he's really sensitive, and I've decided I'll be reading a lot of the books before I allow him to read them.

    As far as conversation, it works both ways. He should understand that some people have no more desire to travel to foreign countries than he desires to follow football. He can either expand his knowledge of more common topics of conversation, or accept he'll have fewer things to talk about with fewer people. Either one is acceptable, the way I see it. He might have been able to engage in a little more conversation by discussing the Japanese restaurant, what items the guy liked, had he eaten at other Japanese restaurants, etc.

    GS8 & I have a game that started accidently. I made an off-hand remark one day in response to something he said or did, I said, "You are so weird". He said, "Thank you". And he is right, it is a compliment! So, we compliment each other about our particular weirdness.

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    I love that! Celebrate diversity! Love your weirdnesses!

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    Lord of the Flies

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    A couple authors:
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    Mark Twain

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    Originally Posted by OHGrandma
    GS8 & I have a game that started accidently. I made an off-hand remark one day in response to something he said or did, I said, "You are so weird". He said, "Thank you". And he is right, it is a compliment! So, we compliment each other about our particular weirdness.

    Ha - "you are so weird" is a regular compliment at our house. DS says he loves being weird!

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    I always tell my kids lovingly that they're weird, say "and so am I" and then hug 'em.

    Weirdness is one of my favorite qualities in a person.


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