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I understand. I've struggled with this as well. DS11, loves minecraft, the only video game he's really been interested in, and probably would spend hours on it if we allowed it. This summer, we signed him up for a online class on how to make video games through Northwestern University's Center for Talented Development. This class was quite expensive, but game design and computer language (he'd wanted to learn Python, but those classes were full) are things he's really passionate about.
Next year, I'll encourage a creative writing course or a science course (two other passions) but this year I've made peace with this choice. Even though it's entirely foreign to me, the whole minecraft thing, I do understand how real-life wisdom can be gained and how it's helped his confidence and skill on the computer and also his typing skills. Regarding the real life wisdom, he's learned it's wiser to team up with trusted individuals and share items rather than hording and fighting. He's learned that not everyone can be trusted and how to do deal with bullies. It's quite remarkable in some ways, the life lessons, these online community games offer.
So...I'm trying to be open-minded, while at the same time teach balance and priorities.
Last edited by KADmom; 07/01/13 12:27 PM.