We are at a very small rural school with no separate gifted program... there is a gifted program in a nearby town that (last I heard) had a gifted program that was 1/2 days integrated, 1/2 days segregated. I don't think we can get him in for September given the timing of all this...
Hi Athca,
Welcome. I'm so glad you are here. Your impression of your son as 'unusually bright' has been confirmed by the numbers. You should apply to DYS, it isn't a gaurentee that your son will be accepted, but it's certianly worth a try.
My son has similar Verbal and Performance scores to yours, with slightly weaker Working Memory, and Processing speed around 75th% (I can't remember exactly, but it's below average.)
For my son, it was part of Sensory Integration issues, anxiety, motor planning issues, slow-as-molasses-in-January issues, and ADD. He did very well once he learned to type at age 9. At age 10 I changed his school, to a private school, and told them - "I know he is bright - but you must agree to treat him 'as if' he has a writing disability, and allow him to type on a laptop anything longer than 3 sentences or math. BTW - for Math, turn the notebook paper sideways!
The laptop worked great once DS learned to type, and I sat with him and I bribed him big time to get that to happen. When my son finally learned to type, it was like watching Elsa the Lion return to the wild in the movie 'Born Free.' Very wonderful. Even though my son's scores aren't as much of a scatter as your sons, it was like his mind was finally being allowed to roam the savannah at full speed. ((little tear))
I get that your son is already feeling dumb in the regular classroom, and moving to the gifted classroom could be great:
(If, for example, on of the reasons he feels dumb is that his peers give him those blank looks when he tries to gain their interest in games or jokes he thinks are funny.)
or it could be terrible: (If the particular group of boys in the program are into the 'entity theory' of intelligence, and needing to compare themselves to each other over every little thing to see 'who has it and who doesn't.')
However - I would still encourage you to call the Gifted Coordinator at the other school just to request a meeting to sit down and 'pick her brain.' She may have seen other kids with similar spreads and be full of suggestions of things to try and even offer herself as a resouce to the teachers at your home school. Or she may beg you to give her program a try. I doesn't hurt to ask.
The ideal thing is to go over there and observe the classroom for a few hours and see what is going on over there, educationally and socially.
Best Wishes,
Grinity