TerriS
To me it seems like both the vision therapy and the neuropsy are good investments. I would perhaps favor making the JH apt now for a convient time 6 months into the future to give the VT a chance to work -or not work- first as lots of these issues are sort of process of elimination-y.

We have allopathic medical folks in the family who think VT is snake oil and I wasn't quite the person I am now after the last 7 years of this wild ride. Also I hadn't met anyone who had done it. Luckily in DSs situation he appeared to be more immaturity rather than intervention needing....but still too close for comfort.
G


Coaching available, at SchoolSuccessSolutions.com