Mommy,
Hmm. I have one who looks similar and had doubts about IQ when I got the results as well. But maybe what is going on is that mine (speaking only for myself here) is gifted in appearance because he is gifted by the Renzulli model. That is, the intersection of 'bright' raw intellect, creativity and drive (coupled in our case with sensory issues) comes off as textbook highly gifted. I would be okay with leaving my ds in school if he were happy there, even if he weren�t progressing academically. I think. I�ll be interested in knowing how things go for your family.