Yesterday I got a note from ds teacher that he is fidgeting too much and that she can offer him a stress ball. Talked to my ds about this. His response was:" I am not stressed, I am bored." It's funny and sad at the same time. But really should I ask if his fidgeting is bothering other kids? If it is not, why would she be concerned? The fact that he is bored again does concern me. However, ds does not want to do another grade skip. His reasons are that, he has made a lot of friends and he does not want to be the shortest kid in the class.