Grinity,

That is great advise, and I will do just that. Yes, my dh comes to all of the school meetings. My son's child psychologist (who we see twice a month because of his medical issues) is also extremely supportive and in contact with the school. Thankfully, we have gained a friend in the special ed teacher since this testing and in the district's child psychologist. We are still fighting like crazy for his medical accomodations, and you are absolutely correct in saying how it all has to be in writing. We are learning from our mistakes. First, I have to ensure his safety and health. Hopefully if we can get that ironed out with them before mid-February, I will move on to the additional testing. I will also go back and reread the law.

Mich, very good point. I hadn't looked at it that way. Even if he could move up for morning work during those last 4 weeks (mid-April bday and mid-May dismissal), it would be beneficial to him.

Thank you again. I feel much less anxiety now and more prepared to take this on.