Wow--your dd sounds like my 3 year old! And your post def. makes me think I need to take a more active approach to getting her evaluated. I think Grinity had great advice re: private lessons. I will be very interested in following your dd's progress! Re: ADHD--as an adult (gifted, but for sure not PG and prob. not HG) who is pretty well convinced that I have ADHD, with a kid who sounds very similar to yours, my un-expert opinion is that "PG with a lot of mental and physical energy" may fit better than ADHD. For whatever that is worth.