I guess we could say are homeschooling although DD should age wise be in Preschool right now. We most likely will continue to homeschool as well. She has been asking to have school for about 2 years now, so we do some, about an hour or so a day broken up to when she feels like it or asks for it.
LD mom said it great
[ I began to relax. I decided that since we're homeschooling, doing the whole non traditional thing anyway, we don't have to follow a sequential path at all. If he wants to do high school math so be it. We can always go back to review grade level concepts when he needs it. This realization that I don't have to follow what schools are doing has been the best thing to happen in our homeschool.
When I decided we would homeschool preschool I though okay preschool curriculum, follow it. WRONG, DD was miserable, now we do what she wants...lots of play, lots of time pretend playing together, she loves to draw, but she is now working her way pretty much by herself through a 3rd grade text book and loving it. Dh and I have discussed and there is no reason for a sequence, we can allways go back and review a grade level concept if she ever needs me to. Although I am of the opinion that dd seems to be able to realize when she needs to step back and is a little bit ahead of where she needs to be, and she asks us questions that help her catch up so she can continue going LOL.
The best advice.....relax and follow your kids lead. I don't have any advice for siblings because DD is an only and I have no idea how I would handle that. Good luck