Hi doodlebug,
A number of parents have tried the Barton method to teach decoding skills. It is based on the Orton Gillingham approach as is Wilson.
http://www.bartonreading.com/For fluency training, you can try Read Naturally.
http://www.readnaturally.com/As far as Fast Forward - the research is a bit sketchy about how well it actually works. Plus, it is designed to address only some aspects of APD and or dyslexia.
The Scottish Rite centers run by the Masons also offer excellent OG tutoring. Not sure if there is a center by you:
http://www.childrenslearningcenters.org/\
You might also post at
http://millermom.proboards.com/index.cgi? There are a number of members that have children with dyslexia and some that home school.
