ColinsMum, thanks for linking back to the first thread - now I get what was so upsetting. It looks like the study was set up from the onset to 'prove' that parent-identification is problematic.

I think if I start talking about 'EQ' I'll confuse people. I like your edit - but let's cut it back even further!
Grinity

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