DD is 4 1/2, and we are unschoolers, so take this with a grain of salt.
We don't have much routine, but on average DD spends probably an hour a day using the computer (playing games or watching videos); an hour a day reading (usually at bedtime); three hours playing outside; three hours playing inside (art/legos/stuffed animals/etc.); and the rest of the time she's dawdling, trying not to get dressed, brush her hair or teeth, or eat her meals.
I'd worry that DD had ADHD, but after watching her with other kids her age I've concluded that in fact her attention span is vastly superior to most kids her age. On a typical day there's no way she'd sit down and spend an hour on a worksheet. She can focus on something, when it's her choice. Or she can focus on something if someone is helping her to remember to focus. But if you put something down in front of her and ask her to do it, and then walk away...yeah, she's going to be climbing on the table, pretending to be a lion, before the minute's up.
