Thank you so much for your post, Dee Dee. I've mentioned to the school numerous times about his shoes and buttons, and the answer is always that the school will only focus on those skills needed to perform academically. It is good to be armed with the law that says the school needs to address the others as well.

The state allows wiggle room for IQ standards if there is a diagnosed disability. That is why I am struggling between battling now or just asking for a re-eval in 3 years.

Thanks again -