Becky, if you want to explore the grade skip, get a copy of the Iowa Acceleration Scale. It helps you consider all the factors and makes a recommendation that you can then take to the school.

Has anybody identified what the precursors are of the upsets? Often if you pay very close attention and take notes on what was happening at the time of the upsets, you can see what's setting her off, which is then a good clue to how to fix it.

DeeDee