Another Idea -
Apply to Davidson Young Scholars for #2 and #3 so you can meet the parents and see the range of giftedness.

An be sure to visit various classrooms of 4th and 5th grade. I'm glad MIL is laughing but this is key information to be able to work well with schools.
Love and More Love,
Grinity


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