OK. I am another one of theose crazy mom's who has it all planned out for the parties. Always found the best ideas on this site http://www.birthdaypartyideas.com/ type in theme and read all about what people did for that theme to get ideas for your own! I always had a theme and EVERYTHING had to be tied in to it somehow! You are NOT alone! Trust me! I also used to do this so much that I started making invitations and selling them for people who aren't as crazy to do it themselves wink (back when the kids were little and I had more time! heheh!)